The Newest Gender Bending Fall Fashion Statement

 Last weekend I went to see the new Drew Barrymore film with a friend.  The movie was amusing and unexpectedly original, but what completely rocked my world was the bold fashion statement that Miss Barrymore made with a bow tie in one of the scenes.  Being the fashion forward woman that I am, I've decided to embrace the bow tie and dedicate my fall fashion season to this audacious gender bending look. 

Last week, when I was freshly inspired by the movie, I raided my husband's closet and found a gold mine of brand-new, unopened bow ties.  I taught myself how to tie them and I trotted out my new look at a school picnic and a Saturday night fundraiser.  That's right, ladies, this look is versatile.  Now .  . . I'm not advocating the wearing of bow ties on a daily basis.  Gender bending can definitely be overdone.  For example, Diane Keaton's constant reliance on white collared shirts, ties, and gloves, not only became boring, but also a little creepy.  On the other hand, I personally think that there is nothing more alluring than occasionally wearing an oversized men's dress shirt.

The point is everyone should use fall as a time to experiment with their appearance.  Whether you're a man or a woman, and whether you want to wear a different hairstyle, try some new make-up, or debut an unusual accessory, now is the time to be adventurous.  People often let fear and potential embarrassment hold them back.  I truly believe that you can only find real happiness when you abandon your fears.